While
sitting having a festive beverage & finally putting my feet up after the
mad rush that has been Christmas, I was watching some telly which gave me food
for thought. Friends with benefits – conclusion = good film, bad idea that won’t
work (well that’s my opinion anyway).
I mean as
much as you both lay the rules on the table; it’s just sex, no strings or
emotions, you have to inform the other person if you sleep with someone or meet
someone else etc; let’s face it someone is ALWAYS gonna get hurt. As much as
you tell yourself its only sex feelings have a nasty habit of creeping up on
you when you least expect it & before you know it bam the big L O V E is
involved!! Generally it’s the woman who falls for the guy & then is heart
broken when the feelings are not mutual, he will give you the whole “we
discussed this” speech which is great in theory but no one had the chat with
your heart clearly….
From having
known people who have been in this situation putting aside the heart ache the
other down side is that it can wreck great friendships. One day you are telling
one of your best friends your deepest darkest secret & sharing big fat
belly laughs then the next there is awkwardness & silence – all because
neither could be bothered to go out & meet someone or have another night of
manual handling to satisfy an urge!
Obviously
the film is a little predictable that they start off as two single friends who
just want sex with no strings then fall in love (didn't see that coming, yea
right). But when you watch it they could actually have some good selling points
about this situation.
For example
the first time they get passionate & start to get undressed ready for hot
steamy sex, they actually tell each other what they dislike having done to
them. She says to him that her nipples are very sensitive so are a no go zone,
he prefers to go on top to help his male ego & so on. This way they can
just get on with the job in hand, please each other then go home – jobs a good’en.
Now if this
were a relationship this would be no good as exploring what the other person
likes is half the fun but as they are just fuck buddies why not lay your cards
on the table before laying on your back – after all your only there for one
thing & idle chit chat or time wasting isn't one of them.
Having
looked at the facts & weighed up the pro’s & con’s I’m sticking to my
original theory that it is a bad idea. I mean come on with all the people in
the world why would you make a deal like this with someone who is a friend.
After all good friends are hard to find but good fucks can be ten a penny :o)
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