One thing I have never understood is why if a guy sleeps with a thousand girls (maybe even multiple at one time) he is looked upon as some sort of god amoungst other guys & is "high fived". If a girl sleeps with even a fraction of the number of guys she is classed as a slut....
Do these men not stop to think that the girls they are working their way through are just exactly the same as them - only difference is that you have different bits?!
Everyone who is everyone has a time in their lives where they go through that stage, call it what you like - having fun, being single or just plain whoring around. At the end of the day no sex before marriage is so few & far between now a days, even if it does exist I believe these people are likely to stray at some point.
Lets be honest everyone needs to "try before you buy" otherwise how do you know you like it or if it even fits??
Men are like shoes - you wouldn't go into a shop & buy a pair of Jimmy Choo's without trying them on first, what would be the point in that. You might spend all that money for them not to fit & then you end up taking them back & swapping them.
Men work out to be expensive too (if they are the right one & the one you marry) look at all those birthdays, christmas', valentines days & anniversaries! Therefore its best to know you wanna keep him before investing all that time, effort & money otherwise you will end up exchanging.
Don't get me wrong when you have the right one there is nothing wrong with window shopping as look as you don't purchase anything - in fact don't even try it on!!
There are so many similarities between men & shoes its a joke, for example -
Expensive shoes are more than likely not only expensive & will hurt your feet, you don't NEED them you WANT them theres a difference. So you spend all your money on the best looking pair of shoes ever, they look great (5 inch peep toe sling backs - Christian Louboutin of course) however your feet kill you :o(
Yet if you would have say gone to Clarks the shoes are not great looking & not as expensive but boy are they comfy, you don't want them but they fit like a glove & feel like slippers :o)
Its exactly the same with men - the ones that look gorgeous, stunning, great body, chissled etc you WANT yet are more likely to be the ones that break your heart. The Mr Nice Guy who doesn't spend 2 hours getting ready or spend more than you on cosmetics you NEED him. He will love you & treat you like a princess.
Now obviously I am just generalising & this is not the case everytime (before I am in un-dated with a million comments how "my mans not like that!") but just think about it when you look back through your little black book of ex's & I bet you will see some truth in my comparrison....
RULE OF THUMB - Try before you buy :o)